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I Met A Caveman *The Nomadic Narratives*
14 December, 2011
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I Met A Caveman If you are new to business or networking scene, you may still be in the infatuation obsessive love period.   Fortunately, I’m not.  As a veteran of 8 years, unless I’m in a new city or exploring a new vein, networking meetings carry as much weight as a dental filing appointment. [...]

24 Questions in 24 Seconds *The Nomadic Narratives*
26 November, 2011
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24 Questions in 24 Seconds  *The Nomadic Narratives* Listening to one of my favorite authors I was greeted by a man using street-sign language in an attempt to ask me to turn it off. I take out my ear buds and smile. “20? 19?  Let me guess, 21?” I smile, putting back in my earbuds, [...]

A Family Fortune in Condoms *The Nomadic Narratives*
23 November, 2011
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A Family Fortune in Condoms *The Nomadic Narratives* We checked our things and sat down.  I was told that this was one of the most sustainable buildings built in the city. I was surrounded by wooden planked walls, recycled glass chandeliers, denim napkins, and outdoor seating suited for high society soirees. What I love most [...]

The One Eyed Man *The Nomadic Narratives*
18 November, 2011
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The One Eyed Man *The Nomadic Narratives* I approached the door, was greeted by a one eyed man, he opened it and allowed me to pass. I did a quick scan of the place to see if me and the bowler bag could catch a breath, stepped out of the way, and pondered the menu. [...]

I Met A Twitter Celebrity *The Nomadic Narratives*
15 November, 2011
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No sooner could I turn the last page of the Alchemist, I hear over the intercom, “Southwest Airlines welcomes you to San Francisco.” Sure success is relative. Anyone can be famous. And anyone can be a social media celeb. I met a Twitter celebrity. As I wait in line he asks what book I’m reading. [...]

Am I Jealous?
13 November, 2011
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Here’s a secret… Sometime’s I want to be jealous. Like Keisha crazy ape s**t, cut you, clap after.every.word jealous. Do I have insecurities?  Most definitely but jealously isn’t one of them.  Men often find me not interested, which has a 99% error rating.  It would make my life more predictable and interesting if I were [...]

Blindly Falling in Love
29 October, 2011
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For the last year I have swam frantically in the sea of sorrow. I’ve not only doubted myself but my future. I have a life full of highs of success to return home to a heart that questions what is really worth my time. I’ll take calculated risks, but rarely with my heart. My soul [...]

Passion is Powerful!
26 October, 2011
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We’re all motivated by success. It’s relative. Whether your success be found in quitting smoking, paying off your debts early, buying a house, or being self employed, the desire is universal. Peeling back a layer of success, we find the perfect package of passion. The thing that pushes us toward success. Passion has often taken [...]

The Divorcee Chronicles IX: Called The Ex
18 October, 2011
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Myth: Year 1 divorce gets A LOT easier Fact: The above statement is inaccurate The Divorcee Chronicles Purpose:  To present a real, transparent, example of the life and feelings of a person post-divorce and to remind those people who find themselves in this traumatic life experience, they are not alone…even on neurotic days. The Hot [...]

Outgrowing Peer Pressure
30 September, 2011
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Sex…hmmm, Drugs…hmmm, Alcohol…hmmm?  All those are ideal “peer pressures”, right?  At least I thought so and that’s what my parents lectured me to be leery of. I disappeared for months and it was simply because I couldn’t deal with it.  It = the IDEAL LIFE peer pressure.  Towards the beginning of summer I was in [...]

What’s This All About?

Headaches of a Holy Handmaiden has been my therapeutic diary as I journey through divorce recovery. I never really thought about my story and any impact that it could have on the lives of others. As many people have reached out to me, I see that I am not alone in this journey, but sexual addiction is a problem in the church and in marriages across America. Most heart breaking, it is in many marriages of the people I love.

I will continue to share my story as I grow in God, faith, and walk out my life’s purpose. Most importantly, I will make an effort to post resources and share more in-depth the steps that I have taken to heal and recover after a marriage that suffered same-sex infidelity and porn addiction.
 

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